Practicing friendship
There is a wonderful, yet simple joy in greeting another person. Greetings may take the form of the amorous kiss of two lovers, or a cheerful "Good morning" beween friends and family members, a simple nod of passing strangers, or the formalized expressions of a ritualized public: "The Lord be with you." "And also with you." "Let us pray." Each form of expression is a way not only of acknowledging the other's existence, but also of creating space for further interpersonal encounters. I love the few minutes at the conclusion of a worship service when I as a pastor take the liberty to walk through the nave, to greet people still seated or just leaving their warm pews. It is a moment of heightened anticipation. The people have shared the space together for an hour or more, sung, chanted, recited, listened, watched, and otherwise participated in the corporate mystery of faith. They have been bless...